When things go wrong what DOES it mean?
Reality is, it doesn't mean anything...unless it does. You won't know until you get there.
Have truer words ever been spoken? When something goes wrong, we humans try to figure out what happened.
We ask, "Why?" or "Why me?" and we start making up stories. Some of them are even good stories. Some of them are just futile attempts to make ourselves feel better by attributing meaning to a situation. In those futile attempts, we often go so far afield we never find our way back to center.
As Andi Mac says, we really don't know the why of it until we get there.
I suggest an attitude of curiosity.
"Hmm. I wonder what this is about?"
"Wow. I hope this makes sense at some point."
"There could be a reason for this. Maybe I'll recognize it when I get there."
Then pay attention. Develop awareness. Develop the state of paying attention in the moment and learn to connect the dots. Learn to see the patterns and it will all begin to make sense. Even when it doesn't make sense...you'll have more perspective by paying attention.
Does all of this sound obtuse? Give it a try. See what happens. Then, come back and let me know your experience.
I'd love to hear.
Wanda Tucker, Coach
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